Conversate.

How to have better conversations.

Now, I'd be the first to say that I don't know everything, but I know what I like and, given that I'm human, want to maximize that experience. And I think this is a pretty good article about maximizing such. Because, like the writer:
-I enjoy good conversations
-I want to have more good conversations

This said, tips to keep the convo going and both people engaged seem pretty straightforward. Of course, this is best case scenario, when both parties really don't know what to expect, I'd imagine. I'm goingt o try this kind of thing out; see if I get anywhere.